Hey, blue meany haters leaving shitty web comments to me, have a great day!
i wanna start w/ few things every woman should have in no order of importance-
1) A cordless drill w/ a keyless chuck
2) A fire extinquisher
3) hot chocolate, so when you crave sweets you have a cup o cocoa instead and save 900 calories... and trip to deli.
4) a past heartache so you appreciate and recognize real thing...
5) flashlight that works
6) great love... for another, for life, for yourself.
Now on to the real business at hand- i wanted to do a follow up to the 'too solid flesh blog' but got kinda thrown off by the comments.....
i'm really happy to say most people, and especially woman 'got it' and i appreciate that.. the comments of encouragement re setting goals are great... i just got some MBT walking shoes, make you walk 'properly', and stand up straight....which for me is a good thing. kinda look like 1950's orthodec shoes, but i don't care, my poor lil feet need the help! the shoes also make you work the back of thigh muscle and glutes, so here's hoping my 1/2 jewish ass remembers it's got some black dna coding in there somewhere.
i was disappointed by 'you're begging for attention or validation' comments from people (mainly men) who obviously only looked at the picture....there was nothing you wouldn't see on a beach, or in a tv commercial.
does a womans body and innate sexuality scare you boys that much???? c'mon if i was that girl i'd be friending you on myspace w/ an ass shot as avatar..and apparently you'd like that.
if you've landed on blog.... chances are you may not know me, but i think can discern my sensibilites....
And to those who drink their haterade and leave weird mean spirited comments you would never have the cojones to say to a stranger to their face- save for myspace- and you keep hiding on the net- it's a good place for you....clearly the real world might be too much.... but get off my page.. vampires can't enter w/o invite..... everybody knows that, duh!
you would call those people who hide on the internet... e-ballers! (courtesy of b.scott)
ReplyDeletehey right back at u lady...oh wait your talking about Mr. H.....LOL at the haters,u need them in your life,take what they put on u,an use it to better your life....if they even talking bad about u,they are still thinking about u right....So if they don't like u,why they are taking the time & mind power to sit down,an start writing hate comments on u,cuz i know if someone really didn't like u,they won't even f--k with u at all right?...I look for people sayin hate on me....it's funny 2 me 2 see...CUZ I KNOW THAT'S SAYING I'M REALLY ON THEY MIND...An that SH-T is so sweet 2 KNOW Queen!...HELL give me some of that HATE u getting I need it!!!!
ReplyDeleteHATE IS THE BEST FUEL YOU CAN GET, THERE ARE ALOT OF MISERABLE PEOPLE IN INTERNET LAND, AND IN REAL LIFE THEY DON'T EXIST, THEY HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM, THE NET GIVES THEM A CHANCE TO BE WHOEVER THEY DESIRE, IT IS A REST HAVEN FOR COWARDS, YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL PERSON INSIDE AND OUT, AND YOU HAVE A SHITLOAD OF TALENT, I AM NOT THE LEAST BIT SURPRISED YOU HAVE HATERS, KEEP GOING HARD AND DOING YOUR THING, I GOTTA KEEP SEEING THOSE BEAUTIFUL EYES AND THAT INFECTIOUS SMILE OF YOURS.
ReplyDeleteHey Rachel,
ReplyDeleteDon`t let a few haters get to you.There are thousands of us that love you just the way you are you are a very beautiful and talented lady.
Keep being you honey.
Rachel,
ReplyDeleteThe haters just want you to respond to them, if you do, that gives them a sense of validation. If they get no reaction, they will go away like the trolls they are. You don't need their or my, or anyways validation or approval, only your own.
"or anyways validation" I meant anyone's validation...
ReplyDeleteI love the picture! And as far as cutting weight,I know how difficult that can be. I much rather get tortured then stop eating Coffee ice cream. But you can do it and when you look in the mirror after you have gotten down to your desired weight,you will know that it was well worth it.
ReplyDelete@ scott- you're a fighter!? you seem to be empathetic to woman, and that is great attrivbute in a man!
ReplyDeleteRachel, I'm glad that you are standing up for yourself as well you should. But is that middle finger gesture really neccesary? Aren't you lowering yourself to their own pathetic level and becoming a hater yourself? You're better than that.
ReplyDeleteIf I put this on here twice it is just cuz I am an idiot and not very good yet at this whole computer thing. So sorry if I did.That said,to make a long story short I was a pro fighter for 14 years and retired 4 years ago in a sport called MMA,I fought in the UFC,Pancrase(Japan) and a bunch of other promotions.Belittling women and making them feel bad themselves is NOT what a real man does.Women are treasures that we have been blessed with in this life and we should treat them as such.
ReplyDeleteRachel, I first discovered your blog as simply a H&H fan. Yet, I've come to find your post to be insightful, refreshing and frequently hilarious!! Now, I'm a regular reader.
ReplyDeleteIf it's cool with you, I'd be honored to link your blog from mine - blog.measurableadvancement.com - my blog is slanted towards educators but I believe it's something in it for everyone.
Enjoy this Fantastic Friday!
People are crazy...I don't see how you were "begging" for attention. In a bikini? really? The human body is a beautiful thing and I am so jealous of yours! Any women who hate are obviously jealous and those men who hate are mad because they were probably the ones sending you nudie pics and nasty messages!!!
ReplyDeletehey rachel don't pay the haters any mind...keep doing you...your real fans love who you are!!! and i didn't see a thing wrong with the bathing suit pic...it was simply taken to prove a point??!! why do people like to read more into things than necessary? sad to say, i've seen girls with less on at the clubs!!! lol peace, BB...
ReplyDeletehey rachel don't pay the haters any mind...keep doing you...your real fans love who you are!!! and i didn't see a thing wrong with the bathing suit pic...it was simply taken to prove a point??!! why do people like to read more into things than necessary? sad to say, i've seen girls with less on at the clubs!!! lol peace, BB...
ReplyDeletei don't care how much you weigh, as long as you keep the individuality, the hair, the "perfect breats", and the pretty teeth
ReplyDelete<<<...former spelling bee champ who can't spell...lol
ReplyDelete@brent- yes..finger was necessary.. why i posted it.
ReplyDeletewhat's a bird amoungst friends.... it was in fun when snapped, and it cracked me up to use it to. while smiling.... let blue meanies know my stance. stance stated, i'm done....
and to others, thanks, i don't let them get me down, just check em, it's just silliness.. w/o laughter we have nothing.
WOW Rachel..U still look Dam good,even when U are giving out a f--k U 2 the haters!!!!
ReplyDeleteI've been beset by Haters my whole life. "The darkness always follows the light." It's like the ying yang. People are so deceived today! They are so desperate to belong, have you noticed? It has never been so appropriate to look at history to see how we work. Or art. Like how Romeo would rather be killed than be ostracized! Is this not true today?
ReplyDeleteHaters are ignorant or arrogant. They are programmed to be that way. By genetics or environment. It's like a virus or something, I swear! You will know them by their fruit ... except when they hide it in nice-looking packing that tricks your mind but not your heart.
Sometimes it may be a bad day or something, but unfortunately more often it is just ignorant arrogant bile.
I wish they could be healed, I wish this world did not take perfect creatures and destroy them by forcing their roundness to be shredded in order to go through their square holes. Shred those "extra pounds" and fit through this impossible shape for you! Forget your own heart's ideas, buy what we are selling or we will kill you with those we have managed to program - vampires and zombies.
The hardest thing to do is to keep the truth you feel inside you real in your own head! This includes body image, especially for females in America.
Since your name is True like me, you must have English too, so that means maybe you are a 1/4 Anglican or something! :p
This picture gave me a laugh I really needed, and a great catharsis for I feel like flipping some people the bird. It's awesome because the picture itself is like a fantasy version of reality, and with that perfect angelic smile, and juxtaposed with THE FINGER! hahahaha, hilarious!
Is that your place? :o do you do fung shay (spelling)? Because that picture has such giving energy!
Good list.
ReplyDeleteGirl I don't know what is wrong with people. One day everyone will love each other as themselves. Not now, but soon. Keep hope alive!!
On the "too solid flesh" post, out of 33 glowing reviews, only two people dissented. I was one of them, but I thought I was being "constructive" and opening the dialogue on image discussion that you had opened up.
ReplyDeleteHowever, rereading your post it wasn't the "blame society" rant I originally thought it was. And besides, I should've realized this isn't a discussion forum, this is your blog where you are just expressing yourself. I didn't mean to bring a negative vibe to the proceedings, nor was i trying to be a "hater". I think you are fantastic.
If I was one of the guys the finger was intended for, I'll take it, the smile and the "have a great day" and charge it to the game.
I wish you the best in your future endeavors, your career, health and life goals. Peace.
Hey Rachel!
ReplyDeleteF**k 'em!
peace,
Coop :)
only 2 peoples weirdness, because i deleted some for failure to use proper respect to a lady.
ReplyDeletethoom- you said after rereading post it 'wasn't rant you thought it would be'... i guess that's my point... not just to you...
read the posts before commenting, and don't assume anything, or that anything is directed at you...
and i encourage a forun message board exchange, it is my blog so reading posts is helpful.
Let the haters be your motivators. Don't ever let them get you down.
ReplyDeleteI hear you.
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