Thursday, June 4

hmmmnnn..

horus eye

i've realized my last few dates have talked ad nauseum re their old girlfriends.... at first i thought i was a lesson for me to deal w/ jealousy.. at 1st, by that i mean 15 mins ish, it probably was/is. i mean jealousy is base. unneeded ancient wiring, if you have trust you're golden....i believe it's true, because i've experienced it, that if a guys into you, he'll move galaxies to please you... to be near you.

Now i realize these new talky dudes are just kinda lame and lacking in social graces... think they are trying to impress me w/ who they dated etc...the dialogue wasn't about their own patterns.. it was 'so and so did this f'd up thing to me', or 'so and so likes that too'... kinda a convo ender.

it's never been my MO to talk of specific people, rather maybe patterns i've had in relationships if it came up...at appropriate times.
almost each of my ex's held their own, and presently aren't in the room so why talk about them...

in summation- dudes... i could give 2 flying fucks that you & old GF liked to get pinkberry before watching a video... seriously, go away and grab a pinkberry w/ whats er name.
signed, bored w/ average guys.

10 comments:

  1. Why would any sane guy in his right mind, go on a date with a beautiful woman like you, and sit and talk about his ex's? That's crazy!

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  2. Yeah, if you're going to talk about your ex instead of getting to know the new person in front of you... you need to just go be with the ex.

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  3. My flimsy defense of these dudes is maybe they want to get things all out on the table..but i dont even believe that as i'm typing. things like that should only be revealed at gunpoint

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  4. You might be intimidating these guys Rachel. I've done the same thing thing when I was younger. I'm older and wiser. Another grey California morning music mix?

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  5. I just think it's plain old fashion insecurity. Men are very insecure creatures. Talking about old gf maybe a failed attempt on their part to show sensitivity. Girl, L.A. is a tough dating pool at it's best, because, as my cousin Nini says, all the men are either really gay or think they are prettier than you! LOL

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  6. 2 hell with all that talking about shit....our date would be a TV,a Nintendo Wii,Wii sports,2 Wii Remotes,and some POPCORN....Now that's a Date!!!!

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  7. Yea those dudes are wack fa sho. Get rid of those sensitive west coaster and date a young Georgia boy. Oh wait, that's me ;)

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  8. Scott BessacJune 11, 2009

    You are just dating the wrong dudes.Not all men are insecure not all anything is anything and if you are intimidating them then you do not want them around anyways,right?

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  9. @scott, not anymore, but yes... sure.

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