tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6955373216870527513.post6827320264497104211..comments2024-01-18T22:49:29.413-08:00Comments on Rachel India True: girl fight, not really.Rachel Truehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14589255981935986309noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6955373216870527513.post-82772990658016437242009-08-21T14:01:57.602-07:002009-08-21T14:01:57.602-07:00I don't understand. The time when the two of ...I don't understand. The time when the two of you drifted apart seems, from your description, to include good times & bad...So it doesn't seem like she's a fair-weather (or a bad-weather) one...It just seems like as you got older, you both lost touch & now she wants to reconnect...I don't think this is an evil ploy on her part or an attempt to bring you down....Maybe I'm missing something (I probably am b/c I don't know the whole story), but people mature and change, and a 10-year friendship doesn't look the same as a 2-year one.Rochelle Spencerhttp://www.rochellespencer.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6955373216870527513.post-21172791549800795092009-08-18T07:07:50.705-07:002009-08-18T07:07:50.705-07:00Ben Franklin said, "How we delight in our fri...Ben Franklin said, "How we delight in our friends follies." If the opposite is considered then: "How we are pained at our friends success." There is limited amount of good things available in the world, and if you are getting something good, then I am being deprived. Very few people in one's life are genuinely happy when blessings fall on you. Family can be the worse: Cain and Abel. The jeoulously, spite and hostile envy of those around you needs to be anticipated. You must know associates are going to hate you. I can hear my frenemies praying to the devil for my failure.<br /><br />As for myself I hope the others do well around me so they can throw me a bone. I hope they do well so the have a sofa to crash on.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01018842707063916583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6955373216870527513.post-27816729191706170082009-08-18T02:26:36.865-07:002009-08-18T02:26:36.865-07:00i wouldn't call it lean times, then or now, ju...i wouldn't call it lean times, then or now, just less glamorous times... @ seejer,<br /> that's why i said 'what's in it for me now? i don't mean what do i get physically, but do i have space spiritually and energetically to let some one in if they don't enhance my life... NO.not so mucho.Rachel Truehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14589255981935986309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6955373216870527513.post-56187142244981028292009-08-17T21:26:46.011-07:002009-08-17T21:26:46.011-07:00You're right, there's two sides to every s...You're right, there's two sides to every story. You mention behaviors you had to grow out of. Okay. Is it fair to say this woman was your friend during lean times professional/personal? Now she wants to reconnect because she views you to have fallen upon lean times again. She sounds like a person who needs to be needed.<br /><br />It seems your former friend needs you more than you need her. You should ask yourself this simple question...Did her friendship enhance the quality of your life?<br /><br />IMHO, I only maintain friends/acquaintances that enhance my life. Life is too short to waste on negative energies.Seekerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11116423583616260209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6955373216870527513.post-76503048466267328882009-08-17T20:12:48.938-07:002009-08-17T20:12:48.938-07:00wow as a possible sometimey friend what's with...wow as a possible sometimey friend what's with all the negativity guy?<br /><br />Anyway yeah I think we've all been there at some point in our lives with at least 1 friend. People lose touch people change and/or in the end people can just be shady. It's a rough life, but its living and I guess that's all we get out of the deal a chance to have livedAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13861423661232507929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6955373216870527513.post-37020335313710213282009-08-17T19:22:01.175-07:002009-08-17T19:22:01.175-07:00Look here...F--K a sometiming ass friend,i hate th...Look here...F--K a sometiming ass friend,i hate them kind,cuz i have alot of them fools in my life....they want to be kool when they're ready to be kool...but for real i just have been chilling by myself,i'll be alone before i start back with a your my friend now,who you is later motherf--ker!!!!!R.D.S.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6955373216870527513.post-55300697537017084142009-08-17T19:01:20.455-07:002009-08-17T19:01:20.455-07:00I reconnected with several friends recently, and i...I reconnected with several friends recently, and it's been all good. In some cases, I just realized I shouldn't have stayed away in the first place. Maybe your friend's come to a similar realization?<br /><br />Her behavior suggests you read it right, but it's hard to say, sometimes.Ray Nerd from Facebookhttp://phronemophobia-fearofthinking.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.com